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Category Archives: Biblical peacemaking in the church
There is a kind of frozen helplessness in our church conflict …
(Dave is actually intervening in a conflicted church this week, so I thought I’d pitch-hit with some older posts from my personal blog. Hope you enjoy! Blessings—tkb) There is so much wisdom in this brief book: The Heart of a Servant … Continue reading
Q. OK. We’re “reconciled.” I guess. But how could we ever trust one another again?
Q. OK. We’re “reconciled.” I guess. But how could we ever trust one another again? A. Trust God. Love People. So how do Christians rebuild trust with one another in the aftermath of church conflict, even if problems have been … Continue reading
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What Rules Govern Your Interactions with Others (Especially in Your Church Conflict)?
In the October 16, 2012, Wall Street Journal there was an article titled Big Explosions, Small Reasons. The article reports recent research on “Why Social Rule Breakers Spark Angry Outbursts.” I have written previously on this site about how secular … Continue reading
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Two Elements of Redeeming Church Conflict: Intentionality and Contentment
Q. How can I maintain an “eternal perspective” given the harsh realities of this church conflict? A. It is one thing to give mental assent to the concept of living from an “eternal perspective,” and quite another to actually fit … Continue reading
Twenty Years Without an Apology
I heard from a friend this week (after she had made an apology to a pastor and asked his forgiveness) that the pastor was gracious, forgiving, and VERY surprised/grateful. Why surprised? Why grateful? Because, you see, as he explained: He had served in … Continue reading
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Are Your Church Relationships Otiose? (Vain. Ineffective. Of no use.)
Q. How can church-going Christians truly build the “ties that bind” and cultivate “the unity of the Spirit through the bonds of peace?” through intimate, safe, authentic relationships that will persevere through conflict? A. “Where a people prays, there is … Continue reading
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There are people in the church who have been in the church so long they have forgotten they are hypocrites.
Tara often does Q&A’s at her events and one question she hears a lot is: How can I help a person see and confess their sin that has become a barrier to our relationship? In a previous blog, I responded … Continue reading
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Destructive Church Conflict — The Antithesis to Our Faith
Destructive church conflict causes pain … to God. Of course, it causes pain to the people going through the church conflict too. But the pain of the antithesis to our faith is felt most by God. When his eternal children … Continue reading
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“Helping entrenched people is what we do and who we are.” (Pastor Whipple of Kossuth Street Baptist Church)
Dave and I were blessed to read an endorsement of “Redeeming Church Conflicts” by Pastor Whipple of Kossuth Street Baptist Church in Lafayette, Indiana. I especially appreciated Pastor Whipple’s encouragement for his church members to be prepared to redeem conflict (since it … Continue reading
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How to Fire Your Pastor (Part 3 of 3)
Q. Sometimes, even in a mature church, a time comes when a servant-shepherd pastor must be let go. In this situation, how should the pastor and his family, and the other church leaders and members respond so that they can … Continue reading
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